tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19665812.post3892299403410458235..comments2023-10-17T01:35:44.483-06:00Comments on Tall Oaks From Little Acorns Grow: Waiving the white flagKristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09988190251156621315noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19665812.post-23113082068425881972008-12-17T19:52:00.000-07:002008-12-17T19:52:00.000-07:00We talked about it in counseling today & came ...We talked about it in counseling today & came up with the base of a game plan. We are celebrating Christmas Eve at home together (which is usually spent with the IL's). Bill will go over there alone to celebrate, but we aren't sure what time - before or after the kids are in bed. I'm fine with this. We'll spend Christmas Day without them because they fly back to Vegas that day anyway.<BR/><BR/>We did talk about them coming over to our house to open their presents with the kids while I go to the gym for a little bit. This scenario does cause me a LOT of anxiety, I'm kind of freaking out about leaving Carter alone (with Bill) with them. But it's a compromise & only for about an hour.<BR/><BR/>Bill is planing on breaking the news to them this weekend & if there is any irrational drama - we're backing out altogether & not seeing them at all this holiday.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09988190251156621315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19665812.post-28948839299825636992008-12-17T17:56:00.000-07:002008-12-17T17:56:00.000-07:00Would it be helpful if Bill takes Logan to Christm...Would it be helpful if Bill takes Logan to Christmas with him and the in-laws and left you with Carter to rest and relax or would that make it worse? If he is leaving you at home does the help you? Do you get to celebrate the holidays too? Or does it make you happy and content knowing you won't have to deal with their craziness?Erinesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03049812397540278977noreply@blogger.com